Sometimes, when a husband compares his wife with other women, it can cause emotional pain, feelings of inadequacy, and unease in his wife. If a husband repeatedly uses another woman’s appearance, personality, habits, household matters or achievements as a comparison in front of his wife, it may affect the love and mutual trust between husband and wife. In such a situation, the traditional wazifa based on the Quranic verse “Wa ufawwidu amri ilallah, innallaha baseerun bil-‘ibaad” can be used to pray to Allah for guidance and positive change in the husband’s attitude.
For this wazifa, on Friday, after performing the Isha prayer, recite “Wa ufawwidu amri ilallah, innallaha baseerun bil-‘ibaad” 300 times with the intention of seeking Allah’s help. At the end, read the dua given below once.
You should continue this wazifa for at least 7 days. InshaAllah, within 7 days, your husband may begin to stop comparing his wife with other women. This traditional wazifa is presented based on observations, and any spiritual benefits depend on Allah’s will.
Please remember that a traditional wazifa alone may not be sufficient. To encourage improvement in your husband’s behaviour, it is also important to speak to him gently at an appropriate time. If his comparisons are causing you emotional pain, explain how you feel rather than blaming him, and let him know that you would like both of you to understand each other’s strengths and weaknesses and work together to improve your relationship.
The blessings of a wazifa or dua may support your sincere practical efforts and may increase the possibility of achieving positive results.
Note: For traditional Istikhara guidance regarding your situation, you may contact Syeda Zaynab on WhatsApp.
